Wife understands husband's reluctance over family visits after repeated damage
A woman said she now understands why her husband dislikes overnight visits from her relatives after repeated property damage and unclean conditions were left behind, according to a report by mStar.
Source: mStar · September 28, 2026 at 11:02 PM · AI-assisted report
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KUALA LUMPUR, 29 SEPTEMBER 2026 —
A woman said she now understands why her husband dislikes overnight visits from her relatives after repeated property damage and unclean conditions were left behind, according to a report by mStar.
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The woman described her family as lacking common sense and being rough with belongings. She said each visit results in broken items — bathroom mirrors, door fixtures, and a damaged sofa — and that her relatives do not help with repairs or cleaning.
Her husband's discomfort grew when the toilet and kitchen were left dirty and smelling of urine, she said. He had not voiced the reason directly to spare her feelings.
She contrasted her family's behaviour with her in-laws, whom she described as polite, gentle, and quick to help when they see her cooking.
The post drew reactions from netizens who sympathised with the husband. One commenter said the cost of fixing repeated damage, especially to toilets, is high, and suggested the wife visit her mother's house instead.
The woman acknowledged the difference in visiting etiquette between the two families and said she feels ashamed of her relatives' conduct.